Hi Friends, today I am going to share a secret with you all. It’s a secret which has the power to change the outlook of your life, which can enhance your capabilities and can transform you into one of the most wonderful person of the world to talk with. It’s very simple and doesn’t require any extraordinary efforts or inputs.
All of you have got some dreams in your life for which you toil hard. You must have heard “Maintain your motivation towards your dreams.” But the question is how, how to let that motivation keep flowing in you as it’s just like sunshine, sometime shines brightly filling us with hopes and some times fades out leaving us in despair.
So friends the good news is that I have found the secret of maintaining the motivation.
GIVE MORAL TO THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU TO GAIN IT FOR YOURSELF.
Yes this is what the secret is all about. The best way to help you is to help others. See all around you, your cousins, friends, neighbors, and the targets are unlimited. Find some time for them, talk to them and try to light up the lamp in them. Have encouraging discussions with them and change their mind set for success. Make them believe that there is something extraordinary in them all they need is to recognize it. You will be surprised to know how your and others life will get changed. Believe me the results will be amazing. You can’t even think that how you get transformed somebody else, who is simply superb. And the best part is that the people who are in your contact also gets charged up with the same energy.
But to start with giving motivation to other you have to evolve yourself. Why I am using the word evolve instead of develop.
Development is something which is done purposely and has an intention behind it. And as the purpose is achieved the development stops then and their. But the evolution is a continuous process, natural and irreversible and the most important that everything which gets evolved is the most preferred one.
So evolve yourself into a better human being. You can’t pretend to be good. You have to really feel that goodness from inside and it has to your basic nature. Whenever you find yourself furious then just give a thought that you are setting an example for someone else then automatically the very next moment you will cool down. This will change your thinking and in your day to day life you will find changes in your dealings. You will become more patient and calm. So ultimately by motivating others you will find motivated yourself and also become a better human being.
Someone also motivated me and helped me in shaping my vision in life. I found myself to be a completely changed person. I am more confident and clear with my aim. And the best part is I am becoming a better person day by day. Now it’s my turn to pass the same energy to people around me and that’s what I am doing. I am putting my efforts to make my articles more encouraging so that my readers get charged up as well.
This sad scene greeted me this morning. No idea how it happened, but I'm glad she's OK.
I took Frosty to the SF Scooter Centre b/c the locking mechanism was wonky, but turns out it's OK as is. She got a free wash and a spiffy new seat cover. I'm taking bets on how long before the seat cover gets stolen here in SF.
Hello Everybody!!! Hope you all are doing great in life. Right now its 6 o’clock in the evening. And once again I am with my best friends, my diary and pen in the working corner of my house.
I would like to share a past day incident with you guys. Actually I was looking for a job in financial domain and after facing many interviews I got selected in one of the MNC. I was very happy but then suddenly a thought started bothering me day and night. Which is “I am ready to work so hard for someone else on their terms and conditions, then why not to work for myself on my own terms.” Companies plan everything, make schedule, routines and decide the jobs and fix people in that frame but if we can make a frame for ourselves and can schedule things for us and of course can follow them strictly then even we can also rule out the world.
That night there was no sleep in my eyes I kept on exploring myself. I tried to realize my capabilities and abilities. I thought why not to take writing seriously who knows fate has got something special for me in its unturned pages. And even if this couldn’t fetch up the money for me even then the immense sense of satisfaction and pleasure which I get from writing is more than any other pleasure. So next morning I decided to move ahead on the path which I will frame out and thinking this I rejected the job. Though it was a difficult decision for me but then some thing inside me motivated me.
One of my biggest sources of inspiration is my brother who after completing his B. Tech rejected all the offers from big brands. He preferred to build up the empire of his own instead of toiling hard to make someone else empire strong. After struggling for seven years he has established his own company and along with his dreams also making others dreams come true.
For all this we have to be self motivated person, we cannot entertain even a single negative thought. But in the life of each one of us there comes a time when we get demoralized. All of us dreams but only few are able to live them. Why? Because only when our dreams are about to be realized we quit and start blaming others. It is said that when you are not able to see anything further in path then it’s a sign that you are very near to your destination. So close that it’s not even visible to you.
We start a venture, pour all our effort, take so much pain, put everything at stake and then one day when things do not turn to our favor get disappointed, loose hopes and dump everything. Why just because of the two years of struggle we forget our twenty years which we spent struggling to learn things so that one day we can also prove our self. Do not give path to the failure so easily, fight till the last and then if you will fail also there will be satisfaction on your face with that failure also. Do not afraid in life of anything when you are not wrong. Make yourself so strong that even your opponent gets motivated from you.
While reading the book “The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari”, I came across the following lines which now are one of my favorites.
“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts breaks their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”
So friends I am ready to fight till the end to bring success to my way, are you ready for your fight?
Can you narrate me the movie that you saw a year back? Finding it difficult?? Some of you may not be able to recall the name of it even. May be your brain cells are occupied are filled up with the recent incidents and as there are limited cells to memorize so the information gets overlapped. This is the biggest myth about the capability of our brain.
Brain can store information beyond our imagination. All we need to do is to keep it active through various exercises.
There are two parts of the brain the right brain and the left brain. Each side is similar in shapes but have different functions to be performed.
Left brain which is also known as digital Brain controls;
1) Logical Thinking
2) Calculation
3) Reading
4) Writing
Right brain which is also known
as Analog Brain controls;
1) Creativity
2) Artistic sense
3) Dimensional sense
Unlike any other muscle brain muscles also need to be exercised in order to keep them active and healthy. Here are the few tricks using which we can keep our brain muscles functioning well. Also these tricks break our usual thinking pattern and help us thinking differently. Try them out and they will definitely help you out.
1. Take a book and put it upside down, now try to read out the sentence.
This exercise helps your brain muscles to increase their grasping power.
2. Start counting from 100 to 1
Whenever you have enough time to sit leisurely or while driving, going to a morning walk or in your free hours start counting from 100 to 1. This exercise drills the brain and causes it to break a regular patter to react towards the things.
3. Read an entirely new topic
If you usually read fictions then read horror. If you are a student of economics then read history. If you have mastery over mathematics then try reading out some science related books. This will exercise your brain and you will also excel over other things. You will be having information of other topics like as well.
4. Play Games
Spend few minutes over games like Sudoku, Crossword and other electronic games. Games really help out our brain a lot. But remember when you find that you can solve a sudoku puzzle even while sleeping then its time to take more difficult challenges.
5. Make use of your opposite hand.
If you are a right hander then
occasionally start doing things from left hand like writing, combing, opening
doors, operating keypad etc. this will help your mind to rethink upon daily
tasks and explore the new pathways.
6. Memorizing the phone
numbers
We
all maintain a long phone call list in our mobiles, organizers etc. But try
remembering some important phone numbers. This practice greatly helps in
improving the memory and also helps you to immediately retrieve a number to
make urgent call.
7. Break the Routine
The best way to keep your brain young give challenges to it. Like change the
route of your office. Eat from your left hand etc. Do things with different
sequence number or pattern, which your brain is habituated to do in a
particular pattern. This will keep your brain ready for the challenges.
8. Develop new skills
Learning new skills can help out you to shake up the dormant parts of the
brain. Like learning a musical instrument, cooking, cycling, new language etc.
activates the brain cell and also makes you a multitalented personality.
9. Narrate your experiences.
Recall your first adventurous trip and write down your experience. Recall the variety of food that you have eaten till now and list them down. Recall the colors of the dresses you are having in your wardrobe. These small exercises will help your brain to memorize things easily.
10. Develop a hobby
Try to explore yourself and see what activity attracts you the most. Maintain your hobby and keep experimenting with it. This will help you develop your personality and build up the confidence. Also your brain will break its imagination limits.
11. Make Healthy Eating
In order to
keep your brain healthy we must pay attention to our eating habits. Our diet
should include fish oils, nuts such as walnuts, seeds such as flax seed and
olive oil. These are considered to be the healthy fats. Avoid eating
unsaturated fat as much as you can and if possible then eliminate it from your
diet. Even saturated fats are also recommended to be taken in very less amount.
So the next time you find it difficult to recall something, give a try to the above mentioned tricks. They really help us a lot without consuming much of our time.
My husband is working for 5 days a week and after toiling so hard throughout the week then comes a weekend. I desperately wait for the weekend so that we can be together for all 24*2. But this weekend he had some interviews to be taken, because of which he was supposed to be there in the office on Saturday.. He told me about his schedule on Friday itself as he knows it very well that for me weekends are like to be in heaven. He explained me the urgency of the work and asked to make up my mind.
I supported him and said that if work demands then he must go to the office and I will be comfortable. But as the Saturday arrived and my husband start getting ready for the office I felt terrible. Although I didn’t say a word and managed to maintain a smile on my face while completing my morning works. My hubby after having his breakfast left for the office and told me he will be late.
After he went to the office I with all my enthusiasm lost lied on the bed just waiting for the time to flee like air. After half an hour I got a call from my husband. It was the usual as after reaching the office he always calls up to inform. I picked up my cell and said “so you reached” but without let me talk further he said “I am missing you and although you pretended a lot today in the morning but I know how much are you dieing to be with me.”
That one sentence made up my day. I felt the energy back. I came to know what makes me go on. Yes it is the unconditional, unspoken love that we share with each other. To my surprise instead of coming late he turned up early in the evening and told that he got all his appointments arranged in the first half. The day was not ended here. He took me out for the dinner that evening.
Love has its own language which doesn’t need any words to describe. It comes to us when we expect it least. There is an attraction between the new couples which gets reduced as the time passes. But actually if you can realize then the attraction doesn’t get reduced. It gets converted into a strong bond and understanding.
I have got a friend in my husband who gives me sufficient space to grow and take up my own decisions, but at the very same time he holds me back when I am just about to fall.
Whenever I do something wrong and everyone else is about to raise a finger upon me, then like a caring mother he envelopes me and make everyone realize that she is not wrong but then chides at me when alone. Whenever I get nervous and confused then like a guiding father patiently listens to me and shows me a path. Whenever I do something unexpected then like a proud brother and sister he pats me and encourages me by saying “let’s see what you will do next time.”
He finds it irritating to say “I LOVE YOU” every morning or before sleeping but thanks God every morning for making our match and prays him to protect me from all mishappenings. He hates me to blame him for not remembering the dates but takes care of the smallest amenities in the house so that my every day goes smoothly. He do not like to walk on the road holding my hand publically but after the party at home gets over always caresses my feet thinking that I have worked hard throughout the day to make the party arrangements perfect. He at times forgets to praise the food I cook but never let me eat alone without him.
All this and lot more make him to be a special and precious person in my Life.
LOVE SHOULD BE A HARDY TREE, ABLE TO WITHSTAND WINTER STORMS.
CHERISH IT LIKE A SPRINGTIME FLOWER, AND IT WILL LAST FOR ETERNITY.
In case you missed all of our Twitter messages (tweets, whatever) about Barack Obama staying down the street from us in Kailua Beach, you can read the official news report in the Honolulu Advertiser. The photo above includes almost everyone from the house we were staying in, and Beau was quoted in the article.
I'm not in the photo because I had just left, but earlier that morning, around 6:30am, I was walking down the beach when I noticed some camera lenses pointing my way, in the opposite direction of the house where Obama was staying. Realizing he must have been somewhere behind me and on his way back to his house, I sat down on the beach and waited. A minute later, Barack Obama came jogging by, shoeless and surrounded by Secret Service.
Unfortunately, I didn't have my camera with me, but Obama was slim and healthy-looking and wore a white running shirt and baggy black shorts. Apparently the proper beach attire for the Secret Service is khaki pants with a short sleeved, white polo shirt. You can even mix it up by having some modest stripes on your white polo. Which is why I'm a little suspicious of my coworker Andy Wibbels today.
Links from my Neighborhood
A jog and some golf for Oba...
Yesterday, the celestial pinpoint was a residence along a...
Steve's favorite thing on t...
A few months ago, .tiff hipped me to a little series on Y...
"With a wedding and honeymoon to pay for, its hard to spe...
I hadn't seen a tape in ages. And then, Mark showed me th...
From Steve (pop.vox.com)